Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Falling In Love With Your Best Friend

Falling In Love With Your Best Friend
Would you marry your best friend? Here are some responses we got... "I'd definitely like to marry my best friend. Since we are friends, aspects like mutual understanding or gaining an insight into each other would be easier. I think such a relationship would be ideal for me." - Rizwana Tavawala (19, Student) "Hmmm... I wouldn't mind marrying my best friend. If we can be best friends, we'd be confident about getting along as marital partners too. And at the end of the day, marriage is about understanding, loving and living, right?" - Joes D'silva (25, Aeronautics engineer) "Well, though this may sound like a 'Mills & Boons' fantasy, I'd personally never marry my best friend. Simply because I can't think of sharing a romantic chemistry with my best buddy. Basically, the relationship between two buddies and husband-wife is totally different. And my husband should have an added spark besides being an understanding friend." - Sabari Mukherjee (26, Freelance writer) "I don't think I'd like to marry my best friend. Sharing ideas and spending time with a friend is quite different from living your life with someone. This factor has an interesting bollywood angle; where the heroine realises that her best friend is also her real hero. But reel life is different from real life." - Mukesh Singh (29, Asst. Film director) Members of the WeddingSutra community write in..... "My best friend would know me very well. She would know when I feel the need to be left alone and when I need her warmth and company.Similarly I would know her habits and ways of life.. the best part is that we both would know each other as a person very well.. so we won't have to face nasty surprises.In my opinion, a deep bond of friendship is the best foundation for the future.." - K Mahesh "I married my best friend. We were best of friends for more than a year, when we asked the question 'Why not'. We hit it out great, understood each other and liked one another very very much. There was no reason to seek another partner, when I already knew Ms Perfect. We married not because we were the best of friends or believed that best friends should get married, but because it made sense to us. I don't advise others either way - just do what you feel is right." - Arvind M "I would love to marry my best friend. And hope that we continue to be best friends after marriage too." - Janhavi Patil

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